She's Too Young (2004 TV Movie)

Marcia Gay Harden: Trish Vogel

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• Joan Hartman : Nick is an honor student, an athlete and we think he's on the right track. I'd probably worry more if he were unpopular.

  Trish Vogul : Well, your very popular son gave my 14-year-old daughter syphilis.

  Joan Hartman : How do you know she didn't give it to him?

  Trish Vogul : Because she's a virgin.

• Trish Vogul : We have a rule, Hannah. No dates without my permission.

  Hannah Vogul : Okay, so I should have said, "Nick, I'd love to go out. Let me ask my mom first."

  Trish Vogul : What's wrong with that?

• Hannah Vogul : [while drunk]  Mom, I have syphilis.

  Trish Vogul : What?

  Hannah Vogul : I said I have syphilis!

  Trish Vogul : Oh, my God, Hannah.

  Hannah Vogul : Yeah, I bet you never dreamed I'd screw up like this, right?

  Trish Vogul : You sound proud of it.

• Hannah Vogul : What happened to letting me make my own mistakes?

  Trish Vogul : You can make little mistakes. I'd like to try to keep you from making the big ones.

• Hannah Vogul : Mom, it's not like when you were a kid.

  Trish Vogul : Believe me, Hannah. We had our wild moments too.

  Hannah Vogul : You know what? Now you can't even get a date unless you do those things to a guy.

  Trish Vogul : Well, that's horrible.

  Hannah Vogul : Kids don't care. It's just something that they do. It's like I was the only one who hadn't done it and I didn't wanna be the only one. Can you understand that?

  Trish Vogul : Yes, I can, but there must be some of your friends who say no.

  Hannah Vogul : Yeah. I have friends who say no and those girls never get a date.

  Trish Vogul : This kind of dating, honey, you just set yourself up to get hurt.

• Trish Vogul : [to Hannah]  I had hoped that for you, the first time would be beautiful and life-affirming.

  Hannah Vogul : Well, I blew that, Mom.

  Trish Vogul : No, no, no. I'm not saying that, Hannah. I'm just saying that when you say yes, you become like every other girl in the crowd. When you say no, Hannah, you stand out. You stand out.

  Hannah Vogul : Well, maybe I'm tired of standing out. I mean, why is it so bad to want to be popular?

  Trish Vogul : No! It's wrong when your popularity leads you to this kind of behavior that you get syphilis from someone like Nick Hartman.

• Hannah Vogul : You know what, Mom? Thanks so much for getting involved.

  Trish Vogul : Why do you think I'm doing this?

  Hannah Vogul : It's who you are. If I lost a toe, you'd be president of Parents for Toeless Teenagers.

  Trish Vogul : Are you embarrassed because of this meeting?

  Hannah Vogul : No, you're gonna go up there and tell them about my problems. My life, Mom!

  Trish Vogul : I am not ashamed of you. You shouldn't be ashamed.

  Hannah Vogul : You have to brag to the other parents?

  Trish Vogul : I don't want other kids to go through this.

  Hannah Vogul : All you should be caring about is that I'm going through it now.

• Trish Vogul : Like Lauren said, we can set stronger boundaries. There'll be times when they don't wanna talk. There's gonna be times where they can't stand even being around us. And those are the times that we need to be there the most. Those are the times when they need us the most. That's all we can do. And I couldn't live with myself if I did anything less.