I've just rewatched this movie for the second time, and to be honest in 3-4 years I almost completely forgot what was going on so it felt newish on a second watch. Probably because not much is actually going on... The film is definitely not that bad but it really is missing something, and perhaps missing the point, ironically it might be the point it actually is trying to make lol.
Listen, I understand Daphne is on a journey of self discovery, I understand her fear of uncertainty that brings her to Jack, who feels like a safe beautiful harbor comparing to the trauma of rape she's dealing with and all the turmoil that made her uproot everything. She blames herself for what happened to her because she's such a mess. And when it eventually doesn't work out with Jack she takes his criticism of being "sloppy mess" as something that she deserves. That's probably the part that writers got right...
But then, Both Jack and Frank are way too cliched and two dimensional, though all three actors are doing the amazing job with what they have, especially Stan and Shailene. And the ending kind of doesn't bring the right conclusion, like a baby definitely doesn't help to improve the issue of self love or self respect. Baby is a new human being, it's not a cop out. They should've written her some other "wake-up call" than pregnancy, because if she chose abortion that would me more right for a character like her in this story, people would hate this movie even more...
Overall the themes they touch in this film are deeper and they deserve deeper exploration, like take for example Rachel Getting Married, which it has similar feel to, it does a better job and doesn't come off as an upper middle class hipster meditation on the good vibes in the end...
Listen, I understand Daphne is on a journey of self discovery, I understand her fear of uncertainty that brings her to Jack, who feels like a safe beautiful harbor comparing to the trauma of rape she's dealing with and all the turmoil that made her uproot everything. She blames herself for what happened to her because she's such a mess. And when it eventually doesn't work out with Jack she takes his criticism of being "sloppy mess" as something that she deserves. That's probably the part that writers got right...
But then, Both Jack and Frank are way too cliched and two dimensional, though all three actors are doing the amazing job with what they have, especially Stan and Shailene. And the ending kind of doesn't bring the right conclusion, like a baby definitely doesn't help to improve the issue of self love or self respect. Baby is a new human being, it's not a cop out. They should've written her some other "wake-up call" than pregnancy, because if she chose abortion that would me more right for a character like her in this story, people would hate this movie even more...
Overall the themes they touch in this film are deeper and they deserve deeper exploration, like take for example Rachel Getting Married, which it has similar feel to, it does a better job and doesn't come off as an upper middle class hipster meditation on the good vibes in the end...
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