I read all these pretty good reviews and high average rating and gave this film a shot. I found it boring and amateurish. It's one note seriousness from start to finish. There's not even a joyous moment when the men get together. The writing needs to be exceptional to carry a tone this serious for 2 hours. The characters are mostly acting in a monotone voice with downtrodden emphasis to drive home that this is a heavy subject. Awkward pauses are too numerous to count. The pacing is relentlessly slow. One note played on a piano for two hours does a symphony make. Maybe you need to be a gay ex Mormon to connect with this film. I'm not.